catch me, daddy, if you can!

Dominance is not about fixing or changing a submissive to your own liking, it is about taking the time to learn what the submissive wants to fix or change about themselves and providing a loving, nurturing framework of support so that they can become what THEY aspire to be.

~Father Mark~ (via bdsmgallery)


(via pleasuredom4you)

(via loveyou-tothebones)

I can’t fucking share someone, god dammit I’m one selfish person. I want one person all to my self, their laughs and tears, I want to be the first person they tell when something happens, good and bad, I want to piss them off at 2pm, make up for it at 6pm, and to save them at 2am. I need some one all to my self or not at all.

I saw that you still follow her when you said it was nothing (via allhopeisgon-e)

Oh so real.

(via xo-babygirl-xo)

(Source: fragileandbrokenn, via meohmywhyohwhy)

Sometimes kink is therapeutic not because I cry or experience catharsis or work everything out, but because a small scene points out something about myself that’s hard and that I need to work on. J and I were playing over the phone and I felt like I was doing so badly and just failing and he so aptly pointed out “you’ve got a problem with expectations, you can’t worry about them so much”. And he’s right, like so right that I could only agree simply at the time. I do have a problem with expectations, particularly with assuming them, and it seeps into everything. But I don’t think I would have acknowledged that without the nudge.


The Giant List of DD/lg Songs

I’ve been asked for this a billiondy times, and I usually give a lazy reply. I finally took some time (I spent WAY too much) making a master list for you guys. So here it is…. a GIANT list of DD/lg flavored songs. Enjoy!

Do you have any to add?

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another all-time fav..i wonder how many times this picture is on my tumblr??? ❤


another all-time fav..i wonder how many times this picture is on my tumblr??? ❤

(Source: aaanxious)